Updated: Nov 28, 2020
On episode 27 - Dexters, Max, Beau, and Brooklyn delve into dating a potential psycho.
We meet that person who seems so great and almost too perfect. However, something seems just off and we can’t quite put our finger on it. They seem like everyone else at first. They are charming and attractive, but they slowly seem to unravel and show their true colors. What do we when we think we may be dating a psycho?
Brookly and his boyfriend celebrate 2 years together and update us on how the next stage of their relationship is evolving! Beau opens up and shares his experience with being rejected and how he decides to take care of himself. Max's most recent FWB experience may have played itself out, and he opens up on possibly exploring a fetish.
"I wanted to make sure that I am respecting the sphere he has already created [for the two subs]..Right, and I need to know what expectations I am walking into and if they are aligned with my values. " -Maxwell Anders
"I didn't go on a date with someone that was a psycho. He probably thought it was a date, but I didn't agree to that. So maybe that's probably a good beginning for a psycho is trying to rope you in. He was trying to rope me in." -Casey Durham
Guest: Casey Durham returns to the show as our guest dating guru.
Dating Book/Article Review: "Why You're Not Married Yet - The Straight Talk You Need To Get The Relationship You Deserve" by Tracy McMillan
Call to Action: Attraction and infatuation involve an intense rush of emotions. Sometimes we see what we want and are blinded to the subtleties in front of us. As things become more apparent and glaring, we may choose to deny what is right In front of us. People show who they are very early on if we are willing to see it. Do we choose to trust our gut and intuition to leave before things become unmanageable or do we wait to see how thing play out for better but usually for worse? The choice is yours.
“If the words do not add up, it’s usually because the truth wasn’t added in the equation.” - Unknown
Shout Out: This episode’s shout out goes to our Right To Vote. I want to take the time to commend all who have exercised their right to vote and have voted early. No matter what change I want to see in the world, it starts with me. Additionally, that right to vote means others have the right not to exercise that right and it is up to me to respect that right and give others the dignity to make decisions for themselves to vote or not. For more information on voting 2020 go to Vote.org.
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Music featured on this episode:
Supa Bass by Peyruis https://soundcloud.com/peyruis
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Track: Rocky Mountains — Scandinavianz [Audio Library Release]
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RYYZN - Fake People [Copyright Free]
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Instrumental: Coming March 29, 2020